Itʼs not uncommon for people to be afraid to make a judgment call for fear of being judgmental. However, the ability to make a clear judgement is really synonymous with wisdom, while being judgmental is based in the comparison of being better than or less than, inferior or superior.
Being judgmental breeds loneliness, a separation from the feeling of interconnection or spiritual oneness. My guides say that happiness comes from the feeling of connection, connection with our inner core, connection with others, and connection with the oneness.
I like to envision a little me over my shoulder who watches to see if I am being judgmental or firmly anchored in the stability of clear judgements as I move through my day. You might want to watch yourself too.
