Today I reflected on the innumerable times my guides have corrected my thoughts and words, reprimanded me for inappropriate actions, and given me constructive criticisms for the purpose of making me sharply aware and loving, rather then self-sabotaging or energetically destructive.
Their criticisms have greatly outweighed their compliments and yet I have always felt their unswerving belief in my ultimate goodness and their desire for my best interest at heart. They have been truly loving.
When I approach relationships this way, people are often defensive and canʼt believe that pointing out weaknesses is kind and an appropriate thing to do. Yet if we donʼt give each other honest feedback our blind spots can stay blind.