We so often are taught to be fair and listen to others, but instead be the one who listens to Spirit. To our own deepest essence and the life force that is omnipresent and communicating all around us. If others are confused and afraid then blending will make us confused too.
It is not that you should turn a deaf ear to thoughts and feeling expressed around you, but always listen to your own Spirit for final confirmation. Otherwise you give your power away and make the mistakes of others. Meditation is a fabulous tool — use it.