Where is the line between self-denial and self-indulgence? This is a very interesting question to me. What behavior is selfish and what behavior isn’t considerate enough of our own needs? The answers to these questions are always situational.
My guides say, “When you act on an attuned choice you don’t serve yourself or serve others, but rather you serve the oneness.” An attuned choice is best for all concerned. When we live in attunement we step out of dichotomy and into a oneness perspective. This takes deep listening and focus to achieve.